A few weeks ago, I confessed that we didn't have a wedding song or dance at our wedding, but I shared a few songs that I thought could have done a great job and filled that little gap in our day. The other morning while I was getting ready for work, Pandora brought this sweet, romantic song to my attention and I've been obsessed with it ever since. The regular version is great as well, but there's just something about the wedding version that gets me!
While I listen to this song, all I can think about is how much I love my husband, you know, because I'm a sappy romantic like that. I have this theory that if I were to listen to this type of music anytime I feel annoyance, anger or frustration toward Joe, it would calm me down, help me see the situation clearly and remind me why and just how much I love him.
I've decided to do a little experiment, and I guess it could be considered a goal, but we'll just call it an experiment, ok?! As soon as I get itunes going on my new laptop, I am going to create a playlist full of songs that always make me feel lovey dovey toward my husband. Anytime we are fighting or I'm mad at Joe over something stupid, I'll pull out my ipod and listen to my Love Songs playlist until I'm happy and like him again. I'll report back in a few weeks and let you know how it's going! Feel free to join me if you'd like.
What things help you keep that in love feeling toward your spouse even when you might not necessarily "like" them for the moment?